No, it’s not a vase of flowers or a bottle of wine.

Heres why Ive stopped gifting candles and started giving pantry essentials like spices and condiments instead.

First, fragrance preferences are highly personal.

trio of candles in glass jars

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For me, gifting a random candle seems like an easy way to miss the mark.

As with any rule, though, there are exceptions.

A fresh-off-the-move homeowner may not have had the opportunity to restock thepantryyet, so it addresses a potential need.

Graza Drizzle & Sizzle Extra-Virgin Olive Oil

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Pretty packaging helps too: I like to tie on a ribbon and a note.