Im all for festive attire, but some of these expectations are getting a little wild.

You’re inviting these people because you love them.

Let them surprise you.

MY BEST FRIEND’S WEDDING, Rachel Griffiths, Carrie Preston, 1997

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Bride, played by Rachel McAdams, reading the newspaper in the movie The Notebook

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