Avoid being dubbed flaky by following these rules on when to cancel plans politely.

However, what about if you plan to not show up at all?

How late is too late to cancel plans?

Canceling Plans

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Having to cancel plans is an inevitability of life.

The reality is that even Southerners who pride themselves on having great manners will occasionally have to cancel plans.

In those cases, the answer is to tell your host as soon as possible and apologize profusely.

A good rule of thumb to remember: Doing it once might be excused.

Doing it repeatedly might begin to offend friends and family, and lead to fewer invitations in the future.

see to it to still fulfill any commitments made prior, such as bringingappetizers, in any way possible.

Additionally, always offer to pay for your portion if no refund is possible.