We met in 2008.
In 2010, his restaurant closed.
He moved in with me, saying he could get another job anywhere.
He moved into my home and had 20-plus jobs in five years.
I told him NUMEROUS times to move out.
I needed help with the mortgage and utilities, but I ended up losing my home.
He said it was his turn to take care of me.
He had many contacts and said I only needed a part-time job for personal spending money.
In the first six months, he lost or quit seven different jobs.
I got a part-time job and tried to hoard the money I had.
He asked how much I had left and suggested I get a second job.
He did chores around the house but didnt contribute financially.
After two years, he finally moved out, but 14 months later, he was back.
I broke my hip, so he moved himself back in (to take care of the dog).
After he quit ANOTHER job, I told him to leave.
He refused, due to our state laws, he had squatters rights.
I couldnt afford lawyers to get him out.
Fourteen months ago, he finally moved out.
I feel he still owes me over $100,000.
What do you suggest?
What are the odds that hes turned his life around and is now gainfully employed withdecent savings?
Or do you think hes moved on because he found someone else he can mooch off of?
Id love to tell you to sue the man for every cent he owes you.
But I cant imagine a scenario where its worth your time and energy.
The limits range from $2,500 to $25,000 depending on the state.
But in his case, theres probably little if anything to garnish.
Youll save yourself time and money.
Youll avoid the need to contact him.
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Signing a cohabitation agreement that spells out whos responsible for what bills is also smart.
Moving on is the best thing you’re able to do here.
Your former boyfriend isnt going to make you financially whole again.
Only you’re able to do that.
Robin Hartill is a certified financial planner and a senior writer at The Penny Hoarder.
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