Half of his estate (minus personal property) goes to our mother, and half goes to me.

My mother is to be the trustee.

Lastly, do you have any advice on what to do with the money itself?

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I dont think inheritance can be put in a 401(k), though.

What other options are there?

Sharing your inheritance with your sister falls into that category.

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As the beneficiary, youre entitled to regular financial statements.

If your mother fails to provide the requested statements, you might send her a letter of demand.

You could also sue her personally for breaching her fiduciary duty.

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Youd just need to tell the IRS about it.

Youll be on the hook for the tax bill since youre the trusts beneficiary.

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But theres no limit on the amount you’ve got the option to put in a taxable account.

Your letter illustrates the importance of keeping estate documents up to date, though.

Fortunately, youre following your grandfathers wishes by sharing your inheritance with your sister.

But anyone who assumes their beneficiary will do whats right could leave a lasting family feud as their legacy.

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