My alternative would be to pay for a ride-share which could cost $2,000 or more per month.
This is obviously very generous and I am deeply appreciative.
He will be making large sacrifices of his time to help me with this.
Our relationship is great, and I dont see that changing.
Weve even talked about getting married, but that would not happen until after nursing school.
(We both graduate at almost the same time.)
I know that pre-written agreements in a marriage can be helpful in situations like this in case of separation.
Im trying to be responsible not knowing the future.
If so, is there an agreement we can make beforehand to avoid that unlikely scenario?
I think youre on pretty safe turf accepting your boyfriends generosity, though.
Typically, couples need a written agreement when significant assets or debt is involved.
Forunmarried couplesbuying a house together, for example, a legally binding agreement is a must.
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What Id worry more about is the toll that this arrangement will take on your relationship.
That may sound peachy right now.
Fortunately, this doesnt seem like an all-or-nothing decision.
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Perhaps theyd be willing to let you hitch a ride in exchange for gas money.
Regardless, be sure to throw some gas money your boyfriends way.
Your boyfriend sounds like a good guy, given his willingness to sacrifice for you.
It also sounds like youre appropriately grateful to him.
Whenever possible, have a go at show that gratitude by freeing up his time in other ways.
For example, you could cook for him or do extra household chores if you live together.
This situation may be tough, but its only temporary.
Robin Hartill is a certified financial planner and a senior writer at The Penny Hoarder.
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